Laura Davis

I write books that change peoples' lives. The Courage to Heal and The Courage to Heal Workbook have paved the way for hundreds of thousands of women and men to heal from the trauma of sexual abuse. Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, a rich resource guide co-authored with parenting expert Janis Keyser, helps parents develop a vision for the families they want to create. And the first book I wrote inspired by my relationship with my mother, I Thought We'd Never Speak Again: The Road from Estrangement to Reconciliation teaches the skills of reconciliation and peace building to the world, one relationship at a time. My latest book, my first memoir: The Burning Light of Two Stars: A Mother-Daughter Story, which tells the story of my dramatic and tumultuous relationship with my mother from the time of my birth until her death from a much more dramatic, intimate, and personal point of view. It gives a no-holds-barred peek at the real me-the woman behind the teacher, the facilitator, the author. In the course of my long career as a communicator, I have been a columnist, a talk show host, and a radio news reporter. My other passion—aside from writing—is teaching and encouraging others to write. I love building writing communities where people can find their voice, tell their stories and hone their craft.

Memory is Full of Holes

“I must say a few words about memory. It is full of holes. If you were to lay it out upon a table, it would resemble a scrap of lace. I am a lover of history…[but] history has one flaw. It is a subjective art, no less so than poetry or music…The historian writes a

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Mapping My Life

“Life goes along without a map and there is no way to turn back.” —Isabel Allende, The Sum of Our Days If you can only see the trajectory of your life looking back, look back now and describe to me the roadmap of your life.

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Moving Slowly

“There are those who try to set Fire to the world We are in danger There is only time to move slowly There is no time not to love.” ― Deena Metzger What does this quote mean to you? What does it mean to move slowly when there is danger?

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"I destroy my enemy when I make him my friend." —Abraham Lincoln Tell me a time this was true in your life or when you witnessed it being true.

My Enemy

“I destroy my enemy when I make him my friend.” —Abraham Lincoln Tell me a time this was true in your life or when you witnessed it being true.

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What I Really Love

“Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you astray.” —Rumi Tell me about what you really love. Not what you think you should love or what you try to love or what you wish you could love, but what you really love.

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Caring for Myself

“Caring for myself is not self-indulgence. It is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.” —Audre Lorde What are you doing to care for yourself right now? When you feel under fire or threatened or scared or too many things are piling in on you, what can you do to take care of

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A Warm and Tender Hand

“When we honestly ask ourselves which people in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand.” —Henri Nouwen Tell me about a time this

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Risking the Unknown

“Any real change implies the breakup of the world as one has always known it, the loss of all that gave one identity, and the end of safety. It is only when one is able, without bitterness or self-pity, to surrender a dream one has long cherished, or a privilege one has long possessed, that

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Slowing Down

“There’s still something to be said, when you want to really understand something, for slowing way down.” —Luke Dittrich, “Walking the Border,” from Esquire Tell me about the benefits of slowing down in your life—and the obstacles you face to do so.

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Your Bucket List

“Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?” —Mary Oliver This seemed like a good New Year’s prompt: Make a bucket list of things you want to do before you die. When you’re done, go back and rank them in order of importance.

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Holiday Memories

“Christmas is not an external event at all, but a piece of one’s home that one carries in one’s heart.” —Freya Stark Tell us a specific story that reflects the essence of your holiday experience as a child—regardless of your religion or background. Avoid sentimentality or stories that gloss over your real felt experience. Use

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Beautiful Things

“Beautiful things are vanishing each day. There has never been a more crucial time to believe your creativity and your gifts. Trust me when I say that art creates hope, it connects, it heals. So please—write the damn book. Paint the picture. Take the trip. Stay inspired, stay hungry. Put your work into the world,

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A Choice That Changed My Life

“Life is like a game of cards. The hand that is dealt you represents determinism; the way you play it is free will.” –Jawaharlal Nehru, India’s first prime minister Tell us the story of a time that you changed the course you might have followed because you made a choice, a decision, an act of

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Holding On

“We give thanks for the invention of the handle. Without it there would be many things we couldn’t hold on to. As for the things we can’t hold on to anyway, let us gracefully accept their ungraspable nature and celebrate all things elusive, fleeting, and intangible. They mystify us and make us receptive to truth

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