An uneventful flight in cattle class. Flying internationally is one of the places my childhood training in dissociation comes in handy. I can sit in one of those squished seats overnight and nap and watch three movies: the new West Side Story, a documentary about a big wave surfer, and a father-son saga set in […]
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It’s 4:00 PM and I just changed my outgoing voicemail message for the first time in three years. Because that’s how long it’s been since I flew abroad. When I arrive in Tuscany to lead my Write, Travel, Transform retreat, I’ll be buying an Italian SIM card and won’t be able to get calls on
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It’s a weird time to be going on vacation, especially an international trip to Europe. Of course, leading a trip and facilitating a creative retreat experience for others isn’t the same as taking a private vacation. But having led these trips for ten years now, there’s an unfolding in the lead-up to each new adventure
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Spend months in the summer of 2019 meeting with Graseilah, your tour guide partner, designing a dreamy ten-day writing retreat at a Villa in Tuscany, a place you’ve never been. Drool over pictures of the Villa you’ll be staying in: the gorgeous swimming pool, the beautifully set outdoor table, an albino peacock strolling through the
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In which Laura reveals the secret for accessing the deepest part of the story.
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The Power of Our Obsessions Read More »
In which Laura shares what she knows about writing about—and around—dissociative incidents.
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How Can I Write About It if I Wasn’t There? Eight Tips for Writing About Dissociation Read More »
In which Laura learns the importance of choosing precisely when to reveal information to readers.
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When to Reveal and When to Conceal Read More »
In which Laura savors her readers feedback and asks for more.
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One Hundred Reviews and Counting Read More »
In which Laura discusses what makes a great writing prompt.
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How Great Writing Prompts Generated the Best Material in My Memoir Read More »
“A book is made from a tree. It is an assemblage of flat, flexible parts (still called “leaves”) imprinted with dark pigmented squiggles. One glance at it and you hear the voice of another person, perhaps someone dead for thousands of years. Across the millennia, the author is speaking, clearly and silently, inside your head,
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