Laura’s Blog

“Our listening creates a sanctuary for the homeless parts within another person.” —Rachel Naomi Remen Tell me about a time when truly listening to someone else—or having someone listen deeply to you—was life-changing and profound.

“Above all, do not lose your desire to walk: Every day I walk myself into a state of well-being and walk away from every illness; I have walked myself into my best thoughts.” —Soren Kierkegaard Tell me about a habit you cherish that helps you find your center, as walking did for Kierkegaard.

“Ships are safe inside the harbor, but is that what ships are for?” —John A. Shedd Tell me about a time you limited your life, your integrity or your future by choosing safety.

“Too many people, too many demands, too much to do; competent, busy, hurrying people—it just isn’t living at all.” —Anne Morrow Lindberg What becomes available to me when I rest? Begin with the words, “When I rest . . .”.

“Don’t write what you know—what you know may bore you, and thus bore your readers. Write about what interests you—and interests you deeply—and your readers will catch fire at your words.” —Valerie Sherwood Make a list of things that passionately interest you. Choose one thing from your list and tell us about it.

“Silence never brought us anything.” —Audre Lorde Tell me about a time you were silent. Then tell me about a time you broke the silence about something taboo or forbidden.

“It doesn’t matter who my father was; it matters who I remember he was.” —Anne Sexton Tell me your father’s story, as you remember it, by describing his hands. Begin each paragraph with the words, “My father’s hands . . . ”.

“It always comes back to the same necessity: go deep enough and there is a bedrock of truth, however hard.” —May Sarton What’s the bedrock of truth in your life right now?

“There is more wisdom in your body than in your deepest philosophies.” —Friedrich Nietzche Tell me about a time your body gave you something you didn’t expect.

“Write your first draft with your heart. Re-write with your head.” —From the movie Finding Forrester Can you describe your own writing process? What is your relationship to your own deep creativity and your internal editor?

“The important thing is not to stop questioning.”—Albert Einstein It’s the last day of your life. From the vantage point of your deathbed, what five questions have informed your life?

“Loneliness, I’ve read, is like being in a long line, waiting to reach the front where it’s promised something good will happen. Only the line never moves, and the other people are always coming in ahead of you, and the front, the place where you want to be, is always farther and farther away until

“We do not believe in ourselves until someone reveals that deep inside us something is valuable, worth listening to, worthy of our trust, sacred to our touch. Once we believe in ourselves we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight or any experience that reveals the human spirit.” —E.E. Cummings Tell us about a time someone

“I feel strongly that I have a responsibility to all the sources that I am: to all past and future ancestors, to my home country, to all the places that I touch down on and that are myself, to all voices, all women, all of my tribe, all people, all earth, and beyond that to

“Instructions for life: Pay attention. Be astonished. Tell about it.” —Mary Oliver Tell me about a time you were astonished by life in a wonderful, life-affirming way.