“A strong woman knows she has strength enough for the journey, but a woman of strength knows it is in the journey where she will become strong.” —Unknown Tell me about a time this was true in your life or in the life of someone close to you. When the challenges in your life—the journey—made […]
“I must say a word about fear. It is life’s only true opponent. Only fear can defeat life. It is a clever, treacherous adversary, how well I know. It has no decency, respects no law or convention, shows no mercy. It goes for your weakest spot, which it finds with unnerving ease. It begins in
“When a moment knocks on the door of your life, it is often no louder than the beating of your heart, and it is very easy to miss it.” —Boris Pasternak Tell me about a call, a moment, an opportunity that knocked on the door of your life.
A Time I Was Called Read More »
“How can a writer express what is most vital in her experience while anxiously watching her tongue lest she slip the wrong word?” —Jan Clausen Tell me what is in your heart today. Every time the inner critic snipes at you tell him, “I will talk to you later,” and continue to write. Write the
Writing Without Censors Read More »
“You can either practice being right or practice being kind.” —Anne Lamott Tell me about a time you chose being right. Tell me about another time when you chose kindness.
Being Right or Being Kind Read More »
“What a wonderful life I’ve had! I only wish I’d realized it sooner.” –Colette, French novelist and memoirist What did you realize about your life only when it was too late?
When It Was Too Late Read More »
“In the past, memoir was the country of old people, looking back, a reminiscence. But now people are disclosing their lives in their twenties, writing their first memoir in their thirties, and their second in their forties. This revolution in personal narrative that has unrolled across the American landscape in the last two and a
August 26, 2025 Our final night in Bali, we gathered for a performance of music and dance from the village of Munduk. Their gamelan orchestra is one of the best on the island. And it was wonderful to experience an intimate show in a small hall where the dancers and musicians were right in front
The Final Performance Read More »
“All great literature is one of two stories; a man [or woman] goes on a journey or a stranger comes to town.” ― Leo Tolstoy Free write for ten minutes about each of these scenarios. Then turn one―or both―into a more developed piece.
Arrivals and Departures Read More »
In our final writing class, I had people review their time in Bali by having them respond to this series of sentence stems for three minutes each: Since I’ve come to Bali, I did this to enable everyone to review and remember the sensory details of this land and personal peak experiences they’d had over
Since I’ve Come to Bali Read More »
August 24, 2025 One of the things I love most about Puri Lumbung, our final hotel in Munduk, Bali is that it’s not just a hotel for guests. It’s all a place the community uses, too: they grow and harvest rice here, and it’s the where dance classes are held for the local children. I
It’s All About the Dance Read More »
August 21, 2025 I love the morning hikes we take from our home base in Munduk, Bali. Today, we went out exploring rice fields, coffee, and clove plantations and wandered through rural villages. We walked on cement, grass, mud, and dirt. We crossed streams and climbed a few stony, leaf-strewn muddy hillsides. The sounds of
Exploring Munduk on Foot: Rice Fields, A Friendly Dog, and How Coffee Beans Grow Read More »
August 20, 2025 Yesterday, we arrived in Munduk in Western Bali, the third and final stop on our Bali writer’s tour. This hotel is my favorite. Puri Lumbung, Palace of the Rice Barns, is built on rice fields and the sound of running water is everywhere. It is a peaceful haven for writing and heaven
Arriving in the Mountains and Our Final Water Purification Read More »
August 19, 2025 We were invited for a purification ritual at the family compound of the High Priest and High Priestess today. This is just one of the remarkable opportunities for blessing and healing on this trip, available because of the incredible personal relationships our tour guides, Made Surya and Judy Slattum, have throughout Bali.
A Blessing by the High Priest and the Sanctity of Writing Read More »
“The best memoirs, I think, forge their own forms. The writer of any work, and particularly nonfiction work, must decide two crucial things: what to put in and what to leave out.” —Annie Dillard, An American Childhood If you were to write the story of your life today, what would you put in and what
Leaving Out What Isn’t a Story Read More »
